Sounds like you’re setting yourself up for a divorce down the road. Sounds like you resent him already. The feelings you harbor now are going to fester and become worse. You need to be completely open with him about your needs. You want a true partner, not someone that makes you grit your teeth and stifle your annoyance because you do not want to cause a fight. That is not going to go away especially if your partner is clueless about how you feel.