Never ask anyone what they think about the way you look because as you say, it doesn’t matter what they think. Your opinion of your appearance is the only one that matters. If you look in the mirror and like what you see then that’s all that matters and you should feel comfortable with the way you look. If you’re comfortable then you look fabulous because how you feel on the inside shows on the outside.

That’s why I never squeeze into shoes because of the way they look because I would feel pain and thus look miserable and others will see that misery so I wear comfortable shoes so that I can smile on the inside and out.