“If you choose to.” That’s just it. Do you really want a ‘growth mindset’? Do you want this affluent life full of things, people, and so-called success? The problem is we find ourselves reaching for things that we don’t even want because of what others say we should want. Yes, if you want to make something happen bad enough, it will happen. Most of the time we just don’t want it bad enough and that’s ok.